wedding woes.

Went to my nenek hse yesterday, and right before we went home, my parents and my grandparents were like discussing abt how much it would cost to pay for a cook for a wedding.

omg.wasnt i shocked!!!

it can get as high as $14,000

and as low as $6000.

the lowest is like $6000!!

and i have barely $60 IN MY BANK.

haha.

such hard times.

anw, that is just cooking.

what abt the pelamin and everytthg!!!!!!!!

OMGOMG.

i have just decided to make my wedding as simple as possible.

i dont even want to have a persandingan under my block.

i think marriage is so much memorable when it just short, simple and sweet.

and importantly, not owing anyone money.

IMAGINE, HAPPILY MARRIED, AND THE NEXT DAY, U HAVE TO WORRY ABT YOUR DEBTS.

tsk.

bt thinking again, this is the 21st century.

people are gonna talk if the wedding is too simple, or way too grand.

that is life. no matter what, people are just gonna talk.

i wonder why people have to spend so much on weddings.

no wonder, people are reluctant to get married.

and at last, more anak luar nikah.

haiz.

i dnt even need hantarans.

well, if they dont hantar, meaning i dont need to hantar also what.

save money for both sides.

haha.

i think save money for honeymoon is much worth it! :)

hee.

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dear future husband,

Tie me up with a simple ring,

Make me yours by akad nikah.

End everything with a doa.

and a small feast for the loved ones.

and yes, tts my wedding dream! :))